Femmephobia is nothing new to me: From when I came out, where I was not allowed to enter LGBT You like femmes? because I did not look gay enough to recent dating experiences where sexualised objectification is common practise, femmephobia was and is omnipresent.
So I thought how about ask around and gather the 8 misconceptions some of us Femmes experience You like femmes? a daily basis and would love to see disappear in the near future as in NOW. Your email address will not be published.
I have to disappoint: This is a problematic reproduction of a ciscentric hetero fantasy, that causes a deeprooted fear of loss, with You like femmes? splash of biphobia, because Femmes have all sorts of sexual orientations: Femmes are not queer enough. We are being told we are not enough, constantly.
This can be due to our representation, our habitus or our dating preference. Femmes are apolitical. Femmes are not activists.Dirty Belleville Sluts
We are everywhere, we are political, we are radical, we are activists, we built this. All Femmes are cis and female.
Just no. Someone needs to increase their circle of reference points urgently. Femmes conform to heteronormative beauty ideal.
Femmes do not conform: We use our style to create ilke own visions of femininity, we create spaces were we can feel beautiful and were we live as our fabulous true selves.
Femmes are high maintenance. Our demands for respect and healthy love is translated You like femmes? being too demanding or high maintenance.
You like femmes? Us voicing our opinions, is considered us being too loud and too sensitive. When we make boundaries clear, we are too bitchy and too serious. When it looks like misogyny, it sounds like misogyny likw are….
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Femmes are pillow princesses. Oh my favorite for more than one reason! Femmes are bottoms, passive, submissive I am sure you all can continue this list.
But NOT all You like femmes? us. Some of us love to give, some are dominant through and through, others like to switch it up.
Our desires cannot be simplified.
I actually heard this one at one of my gatherings. In a world that oppresses most of us, that has inflicted trauma and pain in so many, and where there is so little space given You like femmes?
talk about it, cope and heal, it can become easily a competition who owns the little space that we fought hard for. Who is oppressed and who is not is often summarised as You like femmes?
clear cut issue, when most of the time in reality, it really is not.
Also, this applies just to a few Femmes; many of us do not pass or purposefully transgress. In the end Phone sex in Buxtehude is impossible to assume the lived experiences of any individuals. My love and solidarity You like femmes? out to all queer folks, no matter if Femme or not: We all struggle, we all have been hurt, yes indeed some more and some less, but we should focus on solidarity and aim to help each other to reclaim more You like femmes?
for all of us instead of dismissing each others experiences. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published.